I think the OP's point here was that if it's a PR and it's ignored: you spent a bunch of time writing a PR (which may or may not have been valuable to you, e.g. if you maintain a fork now). On the other hand, if it was an esoteric contribution process, you spent a lot of time figuring out how to get the patch in there, but that obviously has 0 value outside contributing within that particular open source project.