> Like I've said if you are small enough to avoid any interest, it's ok - but selling electronic services to EU residents without VAT in the EU is not legal.
You are confused. Selling services to EU residents without VAT is perfectly fine if the company has no nexus to EU. Just like it is perfectly fine for a company that has no nexus to the United States to sell services to residents of New York City without collecting NYC sales tax. Not only is this done all the time, it is a standard tax minimization strategy peddled by the likes of DT and BDO.
You are confused. Selling services to EU residents without VAT is perfectly fine if the company has no nexus to EU. Just like it is perfectly fine for a company that has no nexus to the United States to sell services to residents of New York City without collecting NYC sales tax. Not only is this done all the time, it is a standard tax minimization strategy peddled by the likes of DT and BDO.