So, let's say that you loan someone $2000, and they promise to pay you back, but they don't.
Now, let's say that person comes to me and asks for $2000. I know you loaned them money, so I ask you, and you say 'Well, he didn't pay me back, and I don't think he's a good risk.'"
Given that, I can react in two ways.
A) "Huh. Good to know. Thanks for the heads-up."
B) "You never took him to court, and he was never found guilty. Stop accusing him."
It appears that you're requiring the evidentiary standards of a court of law that can imprison someone, when the actual punishment here is removal from a specific social and professional sphere.
Two different standards of evidence for two different spheres of influence.
Now, let's say that person comes to me and asks for $2000. I know you loaned them money, so I ask you, and you say 'Well, he didn't pay me back, and I don't think he's a good risk.'"
Given that, I can react in two ways.
A) "Huh. Good to know. Thanks for the heads-up."
B) "You never took him to court, and he was never found guilty. Stop accusing him."
It appears that you're requiring the evidentiary standards of a court of law that can imprison someone, when the actual punishment here is removal from a specific social and professional sphere.
Two different standards of evidence for two different spheres of influence.